Last night I attended a friends engagement party and ran into a group of people I used to work with. This job was the worst I'd ever worked and partially because the people I worked with were very fake. There was a handful of people who were lovely and genuine but most weren't. And seeing some of the people who were very mentally mean to me were at this party. I greeted them and stood with them for a bit not wanting to be rude. They all said hi put on fake smiles then one of the guys continued his conversation which happened to be him talking about sex he had with one of thw girls I used to work with and he was telling intimate and private details and the other people in the group laughed and urged him on.
As I stood their I realised how glad I am where I am in life. I dont have the perfect job but I now work with kind and supporting people, I'm not in a relationship but I'm not with a guy who talks about intimate things at parties and most important I do not have to stand and pretend to like these people. So thats what I did I excused myself to get some water and never looked back.
And now I can finally say I can leave them in the past for good and look towards my future.
As I stood their I realised how glad I am where I am in life. I dont have the perfect job but I now work with kind and supporting people, I'm not in a relationship but I'm not with a guy who talks about intimate things at parties and most important I do not have to stand and pretend to like these people. So thats what I did I excused myself to get some water and never looked back.
And now I can finally say I can leave them in the past for good and look towards my future.